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These women have shared their experiences, and realized their connection runs deeper than Mr. X. Listen in as The Real Ex’s share insane stories about dating and relationships.

Grab a glass of wine and come as you are to hear these ladies chat about women’s relatable topics such as body image, mental health, marriage, single parenting, divorce, ADHD, perimenopause/post menopause, hormone health, sexual health, creating a sisterhood and so much more.

We look forward to having you join our fun-filled episodes.

where it all began: the real ex’s

What started as intimate living room gatherings quickly evolved into something much more powerful. These conversations—often centered around relationships, self-worth, intimacy, mental health, body image, and the realities of navigating midlife—revealed just how much women were craving spaces where they could speak openly and be heard without judgment.

From that realization, The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast was born.

The podcast became an extension of those early gatherings—a place where stories were shared openly, where vulnerability was met with compassion, and where listeners could feel less alone in their own experiences. It wasn’t about perfection or performance; it was about truth, connection, and creating a sense of belonging for women who often felt unseen or unheard.

Over time, a small but deeply connected community began to grow around The Real Ex’s. It became more than a podcast—it became a movement rooted in honesty, resilience, and the power of women supporting women.

In August 2025, as life naturally shifted and two partners moved on to new opportunities and family commitments, The Real Ex’s came to a close. That chapter ended, but its impact did not.

The foundation it built—real conversations, meaningful connection, and a willingness to show up authentically—is what gave rise to what exists today.

Sisterhood Society PDX and Sisterhood Health & Lifestyle: Not Your Mother’s Midlife Magazine are the evolution of that original spark. While The Real Ex’s centered on storytelling and shared experiences, Sisterhood expands that vision into a broader platform—one that blends personal stories with expertise, resources, and a growing community of women committed to supporting, educating, and empowering one another.

It’s still about connection. It’s still about honesty. It’s still about women showing up for women. Just in a bigger, more expansive way. And while The Real Ex’s is no longer active, its voice lives on. The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast is still available on Spotify, preserving the conversations, stories, and moments that started it all.

Because without The Real Ex’s, there would be no Sisterhood.

Before Sisterhood Society PDX and Sisterhood Health & Lifestyle came to life, there was The Real Ex’s—a deeply personal beginning rooted in connection, vulnerability, and unexpected friendship.

Early 2020, during a time when the world still felt uncertain and isolating, four women—Heather, Deri, Sofie, and Amy—found themselves brought together through shared experiences with someone known simply as “Mr. X.” What could have remained a painful or complicated chapter instead became the catalyst for something meaningful. Through honest conversations, laughter, and moments of raw truth, they created a space where they could show up fully as themselves—unfiltered, supported, and understood.

What people are saying about

the Real Ex's

  • The Real Ex’s of Portland are simply amazing. They are funny, honest, and work to empower women to live their best lives. They touch on tough topics in an inviting way while creating a safe space to all who listen. And they dive deep into topics women want to, and sometime need to, hear. When interviewed by them about my book they drew the story out of me. Not just the story I had written, but parts of my story allowing me to be brave and true to myself while promoting my book. They gave my words the brevity they deserved knowing that it would be impactful. And the best part was that the entire time I felt like I was chatting with a group of friends that I had known forever. If you have not listened to them yet, what are you waiting for? You won’t regret it!

    Kristin Gartner

    Podcast Guest, Friend & Author

  • I had the pleasure of being a guest on The Real Ex's of Portlands podcast featuring Sophie, Heather, and Amy. We started the morning with fresh baked biscuits and breakfast, joy, laughter, and a healthy dose of female empowerment. These women are special- protect them at all cost. After escaping a 22-year domestic violence relationship I told myself the only way I would ever make it out alive, through the post separation torture, and into a life that saturated me in joy was to speak... And to speak loudly in every forum I could. Blessedly using my voice to save myself has also helped other women feel seen and heard. Sophie, Heather, and Amy gave me a louder platform and extended my voice deeper reach by amplifying me to their audience. They helped me feel "normal" after years of living with skeletons in my closet; they helped me feel heard, believed, and most importantly worthy of grace. Thank you, ladies, for all that you do, for helping women build community and through that space: heal. You're amazing.

    Nikkiel King

    Friend, Podcast Guest, Family Nurse Practitioner, Child and Women Domestic Violence Advocate, and Writer

  • Being a guest on Real Ex's of Portland has truly been a highlight of my summer. It is empowering and inspiring to gather with such intelligent, strong, compassionate women to share our challenges and our victories. Sofie and Amy are the real deal – they offer their thoughts and feelings with incredible generosity and vulnerability. Their topics are both relevant and actionable, providing valuable insights. I am deeply grateful to be a part of this beautiful circle and I look forward to coming back again and again, contributing what I can and leaving with my heart filled up. Here's to YOUR passionate life!

    Ratika Hansen 

    Podcast guest, Friend, Author, Positive Intelligence Coach, Certified Facilitator for Passion Test

  • Being a part of the Real Exs has been such an inspiring community. The women genuinely care and make connections. The experience has brought a feeling of connectivity. I anticipate building more friendships in the future.

    Sam Lou

    Friend & Event Attender

  • I had the absolute best time on "The Real Ex's of Portland" podcast with Amy, Sofie, and Heather. As a first-time podcast guest, I was a bit nervous, but they made the whole experience feel so comfortable and welcoming. These ladies know how to create an engaging and supportive space. On top of that, I've had the pleasure of attending some of their social events, and they are nothing short of amazing. It's not just about the stories, food, and wine—it's about the incredible group of women they bring together. 10/10 recommend, whether you're tuning in or showing up in person!

    Nicole Severson

    Friend, Podcast Guest, Event Attender,  Headshot & Branding Photographer, Mindset Coach, and Educator

“We are all untold stories”

— The Real Ex’s